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emergency planning

October 30, 20252 min read
emergency planning

your car battery will die. you will lock yourself out of your house. a pipe will burst. someone you love will end up in the ER. these aren't pessimistic predictions. they're guarantees on a long enough timeline.

the illusion of "it won't happen to me"

every single person who got blindsided by a disaster thought the same thing the day before: "that stuff happens to other people." and then it happened to them, and they were scrambling -- no savings, no plan, no spare key, no jumper cables, no idea what to do.

that's not bad luck. that's bad preparation disguised as optimism.

the minimum viable safety net

you don't need a bunker in montana. you need the basics:

  • one year of emergency savings -- not six months, one year. job markets crash, medical bills stack, and recovery always takes longer than you think
  • spare keys for your home, car, and anything else you'd be screwed without. give copies to someone you trust
  • jumper cables in the trunk -- dead battery in a parking lot at 11 PM is a very specific kind of helpless
  • a basic first aid kit that you've actually opened and know how to use
  • important documents digitized and backed up somewhere other than your laptop

none of this is exciting. none of it makes for a good instagram story. but the day you need it, it's the most important thing you own.

fear reduction through preparation

here's what most people miss: emergency planning isn't about anxiety. it's the antidote to anxiety. the reason you feel a low-grade hum of dread about the future is because you know, deep down, you're not ready for it.

fix that. the hum goes quiet.

start this week

pick the one disaster scenario that would wreck you the hardest right now. no savings? no spare key? no health insurance? whatever it is, take one concrete step toward fixing it today. not tomorrow. today.

the future you who's standing in a crisis will either curse present you or thank present you. that choice is being made right now.

if this resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear it.