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follow the buddha

April 17, 20252 min read
follow the buddha

buddhism isn't just a religion. stripped of the metaphysics, it's one of the most practical psychological frameworks ever developed. and it's 2,500 years old.

the core insight

the Buddha's central observation was simple: life involves suffering, and most of that suffering is self-created through craving, aversion, and ignorance. you suffer not because of what happens to you, but because of your relationship to what happens.

read that again. it's the most important idea in this entire post.

the noble eightfold path

the Buddha didn't just diagnose the problem — he prescribed a solution. eight interconnected practices:

  1. right view — see reality as it is, not as you want it to be
  2. right intention — align your motivations with compassion and wisdom
  3. right speech — speak truthfully, kindly, and usefully
  4. right action — behave ethically and harmlessly
  5. right livelihood — earn your living without causing harm
  6. right effort — apply energy toward wholesome states of mind
  7. right mindfulness — maintain awareness of your thoughts, feelings, and actions
  8. right concentration — develop deep focus through meditation

"right" here doesn't mean morally correct in a dogmatic sense. it means "skillful" — these are practices that reduce suffering when applied skillfully.

the practical takeaway

you don't need to meditate for hours or shave your head. start with one path. right speech, for example — spend one week being intentionally honest, kind, and purposeful with every word you say. notice what changes.

or try right mindfulness — simply pay attention to what you're feeling throughout the day without trying to change it. most people have never actually done this.

why it matters now

we live in an age of unprecedented comfort and unprecedented anxiety. the Buddha's insight — that suffering comes from our response to circumstances, not the circumstances themselves — has never been more relevant.

study the path. pick one element. practice it this week.

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