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self-efficacy

April 30, 20252 min read
self-efficacy

you walk around every day with a rough mental model of what you're capable of. but here's the thing — that model is almost certainly wrong.

the confidence gap you don't know about

self-efficacy isn't just a fancy psychology term. it's your belief in your own ability to handle specific situations. and it quietly controls almost every decision you make.

when your self-efficacy is low in an area, you avoid it. you procrastinate. you tell yourself it's "not your thing." when it's high, you lean in, even when things get hard.

the problem? most people have never actually measured it. they're operating on vibes and assumptions built from experiences that may no longer be relevant.

why this matters more than motivation

motivation is fleeting. self-efficacy is the engine underneath it. research by Albert Bandura — the psychologist who coined the term — showed that people with high self-efficacy set harder goals, persist longer through failure, and recover faster from setbacks.

people with low self-efficacy? they interpret failure as evidence they can't do it, and they quit.

the difference between these two people isn't talent. it's belief calibration.

take the test

the General Self-Efficacy Scale is a free, 10-question assessment you can find online in about 30 seconds. it measures your overall confidence in handling novel or difficult situations.

take it honestly. don't answer how you want to feel — answer how you actually feel.

what to do with the results

look at where you scored low. those are the areas where you've been unconsciously holding yourself back. not because you lack ability, but because you lack belief.

the fix isn't positive affirmations. it's small wins. stack tiny successes in your weak areas until your brain can't deny the evidence anymore.

start with one area. set one ridiculously achievable goal. hit it. repeat. your self-efficacy will catch up to reality.

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