the bucket list

you've thought about it. skydiving, visiting japan, writing a book, learning to surf. these ideas float through your head occasionally, usually when you're bored at work or lying in bed at night. then morning comes and they evaporate.

the problem with "someday"

"someday" is where dreams go to die. it sounds optimistic but it's actually a graveyard. "someday" has no deadline, no plan, no accountability. it's a polite way of saying "probably never."

the difference between people who do extraordinary things and people who just talk about them isn't talent or money or luck. it's specificity. they wrote it down. they made it real. they turned a daydream into a list.

how to build your bucket list

set a timer for 20 minutes. write down everything you've ever wanted to do, see, experience, learn, or become — assuming you had limitless time and money. no filters. no "that's unrealistic." just dump it all out.

your list might include:

• places to visit
• skills to learn
• experiences to have
• people to meet
• things to create
• fears to conquer
• contributions to make

don't organize it yet. just get it out of your head and onto paper. the act of writing externalizes the desire, and externalized desires are much harder to ignore.

what happens after the list

once it's written, something shifts. you start noticing opportunities you would have missed. a cheap flight to portugal. a pottery class at the community center. a friend who happens to know how to surf. your brain starts pattern-matching because you've told it what to look for.

pick one item that you could realistically start working toward this month. not the biggest or most dramatic one — just the one that excites you most right now. take one step toward it this week.

stop dreaming, start listing

the bucket list isn't a wish. it's a compass. write yours today. then start crossing things off before "someday" becomes "never."

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