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try improv comedy

June 8, 20252 min read
try improv comedy

you rehearse what you're going to say before you say it. you edit your texts three times before sending. you replay conversations in your head, wishing you'd said something different. your brain has a full-time censor that reviews everything before it reaches your mouth.

improv comedy fires that censor.

why improv terrifies people

improv is scary because it removes everything you use to feel safe in social situations: preparation, editing, and the ability to take back what you just said. you walk on stage with nothing - no script, no plan, no safety net - and have to create something from pure instinct.

that's exactly why you need to try it.

what actually happens in an improv class

forget what you've seen on TV. beginner improv isn't about being hilarious on stage. it's about learning to trust your own brain. the core principle is "yes, and" - accept whatever your scene partner gives you and build on it. no blocking, no negating, no retreating into your head.

the first few exercises feel awkward. your inner critic screams. you say things that don't make sense. and then something clicks. you stop thinking and start reacting. words come out that surprise even you. the group laughs - not at you, with you. and suddenly you realize that the unfiltered version of your brain is actually pretty interesting.

the skills that transfer everywhere

improv isn't really about comedy. it builds skills that transform your daily life:

  • listening - you can't "yes, and" someone if you're not actually hearing them. improv trains deep, active listening
  • spontaneity - the ability to respond in the moment without overthinking becomes your default mode
  • confidence - once you've improvised in front of strangers, no business meeting or social situation feels intimidating
  • creativity - your brain learns to generate ideas on demand instead of waiting for inspiration
  • presence - you can't be in your head and on stage at the same time. improv forces you into the present moment

getting started

search for beginner improv classes in your city. every major city has multiple options, and most offer drop-in sessions. you don't need experience. you don't need to be funny. you just need to show up and be willing to look stupid for a few hours.

the willingness to look stupid, by the way, is one of the most liberating things you'll ever develop. it unlocks a version of you that's been trapped behind self-consciousness for years.

sign up for a class this week. your overthinking brain doesn't know it yet, but it's about to get a much-needed vacation.

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